Caregiver Star Walk of Fame

Welcome to The Caregiver Star Campaign's Walk of Fame, a collection of tributes submitted by visitors and their Caregiver Stars.  Inspirational stories of support and love of cancer survivors and their caregivers.

Disclaimer: The views expressed on The Walk of Fame are the opinions of the site visitors who have submitted their stories, and do not represent the views and/or opinions of The Wellness Community.

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Shawn Sullivan- “Shawn was always there beside his wife Debra providing sensitive care during her more than 4 years with Ovarian cancer. Deb always called him “her rock”. He was so steady no matter how bad the news. He always displayed pure love and support for his wife and was always behind her choices. He drove Debra to her cancer support group at Beth Israel Hospital and to her drawing class at The Wellness Community. He got to know all of us from her support group and always greeted us with that special smile as we would wheel Debra out after meetings. Shawn was an amazing caregiver.”  ~ Edna  Mayer

Nicole Tomasino- “Nicole is a physical therapist at Spaulding Rehabilitation Center in Framingham and worked with me in the Restore Program. I had recently completed chemotherapy following a mastectomy for breast cancer.  I was very weak and in terrible pain, with minimal range of motion.  Nicole provided me with an unbelievable amount of skill, patience and kindness.  The physical therapy helped me with my pain and range of motion.  The massage therapy helped with my pain from my surgical incision across my chest and under my arm. Her patience and kindness throughout three months of therapy provided me with the will to recover.  I could not have reached the point where I now am without her help and guidance.” ~ Ann Marinelli

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Francesca Turiano- “While on the “cancer rollercoaster” my mother gave me immense love, valuable support, strength and education, for which I am eternally grateful. She has been supportive, strong and resourceful in an extraordinary way. She is a profound blessing giving physical, emotional, spiritual and psychological support. Her help goes beyond the call of duty. She helps because she wouldn’t have it any other way. I am grateful to her for having helped me be the best cancer survivor I can be. Her active presence has helped me and continues to help me cope with cancer, reflect and live a more enriched life.”  ~ Mary Anne Turiano

Dr. Alexi Wright- “Dr. Alexi Wright took care of my mother, Reba Chonofsky. We were blessed to have her with us every step of the way on this difficult path. Dr. Wright opened her heart to us and treated us with enormous care and love. I still cannot fathom how she created the time to do all she did. We were in contact almost daily with a flurry of e-mails, and often phone calls on nights and weekends. She helped us make many hard decisions with patience and love. I always felt she loved my mother as much as we did. Whenever we saw Dr. Wright it was like having another family member present. She was a constant source of medical expertise, delivered with extraordinary compassion. There is simply no way to describe what she gave to our family and in particular to my Mother, Reba. She has earned a place in our hearts forever.” ~ Debbie Kurlansky-Winer

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Ruth Rothstein- “As the circumstances have become unbearable she always finds a way to rise to the occasion. Ruth is an exceptional person and I could not go through this without her.” ~ Jacques Chanier

Anthony Simmons- “My husband works 10 hours per day four days a week and no matter how tired he is he cooks, cleans, and caters to all of my needs. When he can he accompanies me to most of my doctors’ appointments. At times when I cannot dress myself he does it for me. I don’t know where he got his strength from but he has it. I am so grateful for all that he does. He is truly a blessing in my life.” ~ Debra Crawford

Dorothy Smilg- “During my recovery from prostate cancer surgery, my mother attended to all my needs without complaining. She made sure that I had nutritious meals and clean clothes. She performed many daily tasks I was unable to. She was a second set of ears during appointments and made me feel less apprehensive about my surgery. Although she had many physical limitations and health problems of her own, she put them aside to ensure my comfort after surgery.” ~ Robert Smilg

Kathleen Staska- “Our dear friend Diane Gresham visited The Wellness Community in Newton on a weekly basis for over a year as she fought her battle with lung cancer.  Not only did Kathy drive her to her appointments every week but she was there to support her during the last few weeks of her life when she was unable to leave her home.  She managed the stream of people who visited Diane during that difficult period making sure that she received her rest, food and medication. She continued her support after Diane passed by being there for her husband Dale.  She is always the first person in line to help someone in need.  She talks little, but does much.  I am grateful to be able to call her my friend.” ~ Pauline Alighieri

Fulani Butler- “Without her love, dedication, understanding and undying loyalty this journey would not be worth taking.” ~ Gigi DeRosa

Harold Gleaves- “Harold is a survivor of cancer himself and has been a caregiver for his deceased mother, father, two aunts as well as myself. If not for my husband taking very good care of me, I don’t think I would be here.  Among other things he does the shopping, cooking, dishes and cleaning. He is the kindest, most caring and loving person I know. I love him very much and thank God that I have him in my life.” ~ Mary Gleaves

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Stephen Hattori- “When I was first diagnosed with breast cancer, my husband was present for all the doctor discussions, testing and decision making. During my roller coaster days of emotions, he listened to all of my fears and gave me encouragement. While in chemo, nothing we had in the house looked appetizing. I hadn’t been eating well and he was trying to encourage me to eat something. I suddenly craved a hamburger from our neighborhood pub. He was tired but went to the pub to get takeout. When he left 20 minutes later his car would not start. He walked 2 miles in the rain. It was only after I had eaten that he told me about his car. I am so lucky to have him as my friend and husband.” ~ Linda Hattori

Kristen Croci- “There are many wonderful caregivers in the world, each giving of themselves to help those in need.  I consider my mother, Kristin, one of these people.  Her whole life has revolved around being a caregiver.  She is a mother to three now adult children and she has been teaching kindergarten for over 30 years.  Her true challenge; however, came when her husband was diagnosed with cancer.  She exhibited strength, compassion, and sincere care for him as he stoically fought to beat the disease.  He lost his battle to cancer in 2001 and as I’ve grown older and I look back on those years when he was sick, I have learned to appreciate the role she played as a caregiver in not only his life, but also in the lives of our family.  It is for this reason that I want to recognize her, and all of the others who give of themselves to care for those who are sick.” ~ Dara Croci

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Joe Deitch- “When Robbie discovered she had cancer, Joe swung into action as only he can. Joe, at heart, is a learner; it is what he loves to do. He polled the experts, found the best doctors, and took on the role of confidant, nurse and advocate.  He was Robbie's head cheerleader, chief motivator and even drill sergeant.  He had an amazing ability to move seamlessly among the roles of husband, lover, best friend, and caretaker.  The alternatives came and went; new chemos were tried - all with the knowledge that Joe and Robbie would lick this thing together.  Joe did not shrink from the personal duties necessary to support Robbie. Most impressive was the fact that he continued to make Robbie's life whole, through including her in all travel and events, which gave her a quality of life that helped to prolong her life. There was never a suggestion that any of this was a burden.” ~ Nancy Prince

Dr. David McDermott- “I first met Dr. McDermott as a "cancer shipwreck”.  I was swollen, chilled and exhausted.  David was patient giving me all the time I needed to tell my story.  He was reassuring, clear and factual and recognizing my fear and uncertainty, he held my hand.  During my stem cell transplant, he visited me everyday even though he was not on coverage for the transplant unit.  He always had a smile and would laugh at my jokes.  Through all my relapses and now, a new cancer diagnosis, he has been like a beacon in a storm for me.” ~ Christine Micklitsch

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Lewis Coyne- “Lewis is my husband of 24 years and my Caregiver, day and night.  After two surgeries he stayed with me every night at Brigham & Women's Hospital, and did a lot of things for me routinely done by the nurses.  He also took off work to accompany me to every one of my treatments. Totally of his own volition, he took early retirement after my second surgery in order to take care of me.  He never complains about the added responsibilities he has assumed, and always puts my well-being before his.”  ~ Queene Coyne

Maura Waszkiewicz- We are pleased to report that Richard is well enough to be vacationing with his family and unable to contribute to the program at this time. ~Richard Waszkiewicz

Linda Trapp- “Linda Trapp, Susie, to her family and friends, was the sister to Jan Marble that every woman wishes she could have.  Theirs was a loving relationship encompassing fun and laughter on their "girls" weekends in NYC, as well as devoted care and compassion in the darkest of times.  Susie's determination to do everything humanly possible for her adored, older sister had no limits in her caring for Jan in her own home, seeking every treatment and support possible, making her favorite foods even when Jan was able to eat only one small bite, hosting in her home an endless stream of Jan's friends and family, and after teaching all day, sitting with Jan and reading poetry to her. Susie was not just a care giver; her love was a life giver for Jan to the very end.” ~ Rita Van Tassel

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Briana Wilson-Briana provided sensitive and intelligent care for her mother, Michele Wilson, all throughout her battle with ovarian cancer, but especially during the last two months or so of her life.  Briana is only 22 and was working a fulltime job while caring for her mother and supervising the efforts of others.  Her bedroom was next to her mother’s so that she was available at all hours.  She maintained her composure and sense of humor while dealing with a very difficult situation.  I was impressed with her organizational skills in managing a rather complicated medication regimen.  Even though additional support was available in terms of friends and family, the bulk of the care was on Briana’s shoulders.  She exhibited maturity far beyond her years.” ~ Ann Griffith


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David Hauser- “My husband, David, embodies all that a loving caregiver should be. He consistently puts his own needs on hold and concentrates instead on what he can do for me. Since I have lost so much weight, I’ve had to replace my whole wardrobe. I’m often not in the mood to shop so he offered to take me. I was touched by his offer because shopping for women’s clothing is not a high priority for him. He has taken much time off work to accompany me to my treatments. He cooks fabulous dinners for me and he continues to humor me and make me laugh which is the most valuable gift of all.” ~Ellen Hauser

Ann Heymann- “Ann is my sister-in-law – my husband Joe’s sister. Since he was diagnosed 15 months ago she has been wonderfully helpful. She immediately altered her schedule to be available on Mondays so I could work at least one day a week. We really didn’t need much help until this summer. Since then she has been here every week, taking Joe to radiation, OT, PT, out to brunch, errands, etc.  In addition we have been to many family dinners and out to museums and movies. She and her husband Phil are such good company and support for Joe. Cancer has drawn us all much closer together.” ~ Ann Ross

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Lloyd King- “I’ve experienced more love, nurturing, caring and understanding from a fellow human being than I ever imagined possible. Lloyd cared for me, my family members with cancer and my first husband. For the past 39 years he has given his heart and soul to the community of Roxbury, Highland Park and the city of Boston. I salute him as a friend, caregiver and husband.”  ~ Lamurel King



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Debra Kurlansky-Winer- “Debbie brought her mother Reba Chonofsky to our home in Newton from New Jersey when she was diagnosed with lung cancer in August of 06. For much of the next year, Debbie devoted every ounce of her emotional and physical energy to supporting her mom's effort to battle the disease. Despite holding down a full time job, Debbie took full responsibility for managing and overseeing the care and wellbeing of Reba from scheduling doctor visits, ordering prescriptions, arranging visits for friends and others to visit with her mom each day as well as cooking her mother's favorite meals. Debbie acted as a nurse, home aide and homemaker doing everything humanly possible to give her mom love, support, and a chance to prolong a quality life. I am sure there are daughters who support their parents in these situations. However, I'm certain no daughter did more to provide comfort, support, and direct care to a mother than Debbie did for her mom.” ~ Charles Winer

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Nancy Peponis- “Nancy, my wife, has been with me since the discovery of my brain tumor.  She has been kind and supportive even when the steroids make me act angry and confrontational.  She has been a trooper; has held up and has taken on almost all of the household responsibilities.  She has been tolerant of the weird behavior I engage in with my brain-tumor, not only my steroid-induced hypomania, but events such as when I'd feel fatigued and lay around in my armchair all day instead of being useful around the house and with the children.  She continues to steer me through my cognitive executive function problems.” ~ Steven Augart

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Dr. Scott Plotkin- “I can’t even find the words to describe how lucky I feel that Dr. Plotkin is our Oncologist. His kindness, compassion, honesty, patience, engagement and availability are off the charts. As a caregiver to my husband, Dr. Plotkin makes me feel less alone in the sometimes misleading world of doctors, hospitals and cancer.  I really believe he cares about Jacques’s and my wellbeing.” ~ Ruth Rothstein


Judith Post- “Unselfishly my wife has been there for me. She has been involved in my care, helping me not only physically and emotionally, but also in making what we think are the best medical decisions. Her ability to perceive the situation objectively has allowed me to see and understand all options that are available. When I had my two transplants and felt totally down in the dumps, my wife would stay with me in the hospital for hours at a time giving me encouragement even though I had little to say and often times would be negative and critical. This continued throughout my convalescence at home. It is hard to deal with cancer, but having my wife there with me has made it easier. I don’t view her as being a caregiver but view her as a partner in my treatment and all of the decision-making associated with my care.” ~ Joseph Post

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Jaclyn Murray- “One year ago, the day I learned I had leukemia, was my sister, Jaci's, 24th birthday. She arrived the next morning and has not left since. She had been earning her masters in California, but she never questioned her decision to move to Boston. She slept in my hospital room and has been through radiation, chemo, and all the crazy personality-changing drugs that cancer brings.   She made me laugh every day, held my hand at every biopsy/shot/spinal tap, and she's been my brain when I can't remember pills/advice/or that there is a tomorrow. She is so witty, so down to earth, so wise, in particular contrast to the melancholy months of treatment. Through her, I have a model of strength, selflessness and courage that few could emulate, and a debt that I could never repay.  Thank you, thank you, thank you, to my beautiful little sister- oh, and Happy 25th Birthday.”  ~ Erica Murray

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Iris Bloom- “Iris has been caring for her husband Jim for many years since he was diagnosed with stage 4 colo-rectal cancer 5 years ago, following closely behind his father's diagnosis of the same disease. She has been the principal caregiver, seeing Jim through surgery several times, and through years of chemo, radiation, and the accompanying sicknesses. During the last couple of years, Iris herself was diagnosed and treated for breast cancer. Throughout her own battle with cancer, she has accompanied Jim to his appointments, sat by his side in the hospital, taken care of the household, and been the principal childcare giver in their family. Many do not know that Iris and Jim's eldest son is autistic, he requires a tremendous amount of special care.  Iris manages to care for her husband, her children and herself all with out complaint. She is an inspiration to everyone that knows and is a remarkable woman.”  ~ Marjorie Peskin

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Leslie Hatton- “Leslie has been there for me from the start.  Looking at the journey cancer has taken us on, I now see on our relationship with a different set of eyes. Sure we have our problems; they are infinitesimal in contrast to the realities of life and death.  Because of her loving support, I now live every day with a renewed gratitude. Strange as it may seem, cancer has been a blessing in disguise, for now every day we have together is proof that with love and understanding there is nothing cancer can take from us.” ~David Hatton

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Robbie’s Chemo Club- “I have so much to thank you for. You have been an incredible lifeline during this long odyssey I have been on. You have been with me every step of the way, making me laugh, bringing fun and joy to my chemo parties and just generally doing everything to keep me buoyed up. I only hope I have begun to tell you how very important you are to me and how I appreciate all your efforts! Thank you for being with me and for bringing such joy to my life. Thank for shining your wonderful light on me.~Robbie Lacritz Deitch

Members of Robbie’s Chemo Club  Include: Vicky Abend, Lyn Bartholomew, Sandy Brenman, Cheryl Franklin, Mimi Halperin-Maya, Carol LeWinter, Nancy Prince, Kim Sieurin, Aimee Southworth, Nancy Bassett, Carol Beaudoin, Roz Cohen , Joanne Gagnon, Chris Gilman, Barbara Weinberg

Suzanne Hitchcock-Bryan- is a clinical research nurse with Experimental Therapeutics at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, where she monitors the administering of tests and treatments from start to finish.  She is talented, personable, caring and compassionate, and shows a genuine interest in my well-being -- whether I'm at Dana-Farber or at my home.  She makes me feel like her prized patient.  My husband and I love her and refer to her as our Earth Angel. ~ Quenne Coyne

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Windy Winters Harrington & The Deborah Winters Foundation- “It is crazy how your life can change so much in a year's time. So much has happened to my family and me with the loss of my mother to breast cancer in July 2005. This has been one of the saddest times of my life and oddly enough the proudest. We know in our hearts, that the starting of the Deborah Winters Foundation has been part of the healing process we needed in order to go forward without my mother. We think sometimes that she is playing a role in the success of this remarkable journey that we have decided to take in our lives. We have so many hopes for my mother's foundation, such as helping with the many financial costs incurred during treatment. The Winters Foundation will also award scholarships to students that have had cancer affect their lives’.

Orville “Speedy” Knibbs- “Orville Knibbs, known by his friends and family as Speedy, has been my guardian angel since I was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor. Speedy became my right hand during the most difficult time of my life. Speedy told me not to worry because he would be there every step of the way helping me. He has not failed me. He was the person to take me to the majority of my treatments and appointments not to mention all my daily errands. He continues to help me even to this day, just a few months off of the chemotherapy.  Without his emotional support, spiritual encouragement and unconditional and dear friendship, there were times I did not think it possible to continue with my treatment. Orville Knibbs is an extraordinary human being and blessing in disguise.” ~ Maria Asenjo

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Dr. Carolyn Krasner- “Dr. Krasner is an exceptional doctor, human-being, and friend.  I met her six years ago when she took over my case post-treatment for advanced uterine sarcoma. The first time I met Carolyn, she walked in the room and I thought "now that can't be my doctor- she is too young and hip looking!”  She walked over and gave me a big hug.  She exuded a warmth and kindness that melted any of the anxiety that I might have had.  I loved her instantly.  She takes me seriously, and always makes me feel validated and respected. It is not her medical expertise, her notoriety, or her research that make her such a special person to me...  Instead, it is her compassion, her humor, and the respect and devotion that she showers upon all of her patients.  I am so lucky to be one of those patients. ~ Rebecca Marley